There are some secrets that guys love about a relationship. These can make your man fall in love with you more than your appearance.

4 Little Things Women Need To Know About Your Man

There are 4 things you need to realize about your man, hope you can get some inspiration.

He Wants You To Take Interest In His Interests

Men rarely ask for this. A buddy of mine was telling me a story about how he is an avid football fan and he loves the PSG, and he called his long-distance girlfriend one Sunday just to kinda check in with her and say, hey, what are you doing? And she goes, what do you mean, what am I doing? I’m getting ready for the psg’s game, wearing my psg jersey. Then she started talking about the game, and what was coming up and he was telling me, he couldn’t believe she was actually getting ready for the game, and he felt his heart connect to her. He totally melted because she’s passionate about something that I’m passionate about. Here’s the deal. When you connect to something that he loves, the love that he has for that thing now connects to you.

He Wants You To Encourage Him To Adventure

Now, men we’re often conditioned to believe that women want way more time together than we want, and you and I both know that’s not true. You want your independence just as much as he does. You want your time or time with the girlfriends just as much as he does, but men were often conditioned to believe that if we ask for time away then you’re gonna get your feelings hurt, or that’s gonna be seen as a bad thing. So, when you actually encourage him to go on an adventure in his life, to go get some guy time, or to go do something that he loves, he is going to love that. You could simply say, “hey babe, I have got Sunday brunch with my girlfriends this Sunday, why don’t you go and create a boy’s day? And he’s going to love that. That type of freedom actually creates a desire to invest more time with you.

Your Man Wants To Be Praised And Acknowledged

No man will ask for this or rarely ask for this, and yet, it’s what they crave the most is that praise and acknowledgment to know that they are doing a good job as your man. So, it can be something as simple as just a favor that he does for you and you say, “hey babe, thank you so much for bringing the food home today, I really appreciate that”, Or, you can praise him for an everyday common experience like him giving you a hug, so the next time he gives you a hug, you can also whisper in his ear and say, “babe did you know you give the best hugs in the world”, and you will see him expand, and see him literally like feel better about himself, because remember this, a man’s sense of self expands under the light of your praise.

He Wants You To Be Happy

Now, how does a guy ask for this? “Be happy please”, or “Be happy damn it”? No, it’s pretty awkward and very ineffective, right? But the problem is your happiness is a reflection of his effectiveness as a man in the relationship. Hundreds of couples who’ve been married over 40 years often the men would say, look, if mama ain’t happy ain’t nobody happy. Your happiness is tied to your sense of worth as a man. So if you’re not happy, don’t be surprised if your man starts to get restless, and he’s either gonna try to fix the thing that you’re unhappy about, or he’s going to avoid it until you become happy. But, remember, your happiness is key to his happiness.

Conclusion

Here are some things that you should know about your boy, hope they can increase your love.

Khalil Ur Rehman

Khalil ur Rehman is a proud born and raised in Abbottabad. Khalil has worked as a journalist for nearly a decade having contributed to several large publications including the Yahoo News and The Verge. As a journalist for The Hear Up, Khalil covers climate and science news. [email protected]